For two thousand years, self-indulgence brings many to new spouses and denominations that ignore Jesus’ teaching in Mt. 19: 3-12.
“Some Pharisees approached Jesus, and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must not separate.”
Those early Pastor Bobs wanted excuses for divorce and remarriage. So, they asked:
“Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss her?” He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.” His disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
He answered, “Not all can accept this word, but only those to whom that is granted. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.”
Jesus’ words are clear. Catholic priests, bishops, sisters and brothers accept “this word”. They take Holy Vows of Celibacy because they have renounced marriage “for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven“. The Pastor Bobs do not renounce marriage for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven.
So, to whom should we look for guidance? There is the swirling cloud of Pastor Bobs. They willfully choose to ignore Jesus’ words that describe the higher calling to greater obedience by the Vows of Celibacy. “Jesus isn’t going to tell me what to do!”
The Pastor Bobs are saying “I believe in Jesus, but I ignore Him when I want. You can, too. Now, give me some money.”
